I will second that opinion.Used Porsche Macan S-340hp, GTS-360hp or Turbo-400hp. awd, performance oriented transmission, adaptive/radar cruise, adjustable suspension, adjustable exhaust if optioned, offroad capable, and luxury. May change your mind on hating hatchbacks.
the Macan is not an SUV it’s a hot hatch on steroids. My wife WANTED the GR and she LOVES it. Her only concession to cost was the base instead of premium and her only concession to performance was an automatic because it meets her needs for commuting around town and she hasn’t driven a stick since high school and doesn’t want to live with one in the city.
Keep your GR, every time I drive it I am ear to ear grin and I have a 993 and a Macan GTS.
I will second the above recommendation that you find your wife (so that you can keep the GR) a used Macan
(Even if the I4Turbo base model). I am on my 2nd (first was an S delivered in Stuttgart driven all around Germany the Netherlands and Belgium and around the Ring with 200 miles on it,and to a DTM race and the trip of a lifetime). Current GTS was a Certified Preowned bargain loaded to the gills and not yet 50,000 Miles on it.
This car is simply the best car I’ve ever owned in my life and I’m 67 and have had Porsches Audis Saabs Alfas a Sterling Acuras & Hondas.
And for what it’s worth we don’t have kids but we have four small dogs, the Macan is perfect.
Keep the GR to keep yourself happy, get your wife a NICE vehicle to keep her happy. It will be worth the money.